“This article is just a view point of a person, that’s me. It doesn’t intend to hurt any ones sentiments.”
I come from a small city (like Abhi puts it) called Ahmedabad in Gujarat State. Not everyone speaks English there, most of us even if we do, don’t speak and write very well. Not everyone is "modern" & "advanced" out there.
I am one of them.(Only difference is I moved to Mumbai 4 years back and I think I am different)
Till today I would have never accepted it , my ego would have been crushed if someone pointed out my grammatical errors. I think its cool to say “dude” then to say “bhai”. To learn an extremely cheap abuse in “Hindi” is uncool for me, while to learn even worse words in “Portuguese” is really cool. I actually go jumping around in bars saying the same word to my Brazilian friends and they smile. I would never do that to my Indian friends in Hindi. I talk to most of my friends in English and think if I talk in Hindi I will be looked down upon.
I know I am not the only one thinking that way.
However there is point I am making here.
Why?
Some of my friends unintentionally here have been making me think about it
Felipe often gets amazed that I don’t talk to my friends in Hindi, that I have a bigger collection of western music then Indian music.
Raffi another friend of mine asked me the other day when we “INDIANS” organized an Indian night at our place if I could, show her some traditional Indian dance. I didn’t know how to, the same night I was in a bar dancing away to glory on some western music.
I am not planning to change, but I am happy I am thinking. One of my main goals for China was to tell my non Indian friends about India and make them visit the country so that they could experience the rich culture, heritage and warmth of the country and its people.
I am not thoroughly prepared for that myself, I have to read up my own history before telling my friends about it.(you can blame me for being inattentive in my history classes for this.) But I am happy I am learning more with them and they get to know a little about India through me.
Felipe is reading about Indian culture, history music ,movies and Raffi who a month back knew very little about India is now curious, or atleast that's what I think.
I am proud, that I have convinced at least two people mentioned above to visit India and it’s a way to tell myself that “I AM PROUD TO BE AN INDIAN”.
My internship is on track, this is one of the things what I wanted to realize(and much more in the next 10 months). One was right when one said "You dont realize the importance of something till you dont have it anymore"
To being at least “one realization” old. ( in chitgo’s words one more experience old !!)
Things could'nt be better as I write this , a news alert pop up on my laptop. Mrs. Indira Nooyi the new CEO for Pepsi Co.
Vande Mataram (Happy Independence Day!!)